About t.r.a
The Journey Behind the Purpose
From rich experiences in diverse industries to a deep passion for empowering lives...
I’m Tolase Ilesanmi,
The Rich Aunty.
Life is a journey of self-discovery, resilience, and purpose, and I’m here to help you discover yours.
Through years of personal and professional growth, I've developed tools and techniques to help people redefine their life outcomes and step boldly into their potential. Join me on this transformative journey to unlock your realise your purpose, and create a life that reflects your true authentic self.
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My Purpose
To help people unearth and cultivate their talents, reach their highest potential, and achieve fulfilment. My approach is holistic and tailored to each person’s unique journey, using strategies from Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and emotional intelligence to break through limiting beliefs and set actionable goals.
What Makes Me
Your Best Fit?
As a Licensed Emotional Intelligence Coach, NLP Master Practitioner, and Certified Advanced Life Coach, my journey has been one of constant growth and reinvention.
The core questions I explore and address through my coaching are: “What is the difference that makes the difference? How can we live the life we are capable of living? How can we achieve our goals or outcomes? How can we live a balanced life? How can we make our world better?”
To answer these questions, I have engaged with various people—coaches, mentors, therapists, friends, thought leaders, and institutions—learning from and modeling the essence of subjective experiences, as well as the languages that transform our lives.
Through these learnings, I have developed a unique coaching style that focuses on creating profound experiences through authentic exchanges, fostering exponential growth for individuals, communities, organizations, and the world.
My Journey…
I was born in Edinburgh and raised in Nigeria as the only girl among five brothers, guided by two “CEOs” (my parents) and five “directors” (my siblings). My father, in particular, was a constant source of validation and support. His passing when I was just 23 left me unprepared for the challenges that lay ahead. I felt lost, wandering through life like the Cheshire Cat in Alice in Wonderland, unsure of my path or destination.
Years later, my husband entered my life as another “CEO,” not to validate me but to push me toward discovering my purpose. His simple yet profound question, “What do you want to be in life?” sparked a deep curiosity to seek not just a path forward, but a life of meaning and fulfillment.
That pivotal moment set me on a journey of self-discovery, where I uncovered techniques and systems to navigate life with intention and clarity. I learned that true fulfillment comes from aligning with your inner values, mastering emotions, and setting purposeful goals. These insights became the foundation of my coaching approach.
While I don’t have all the answers, I embrace the continuous process of learning and sharing my discoveries. If you’re ready to embark on your own journey of transformation, it would be an honor to support and guide you along the way.
Professional Background
I hold a Master of Arts in Accounting and Finance from the University of Aberdeen, equipping me with a strategic approach to goal setting and personal development. My credentials include a Diploma in Business Analysis, Certified Agile Leadership for Teams (CAL-T), Certified SAFe® 6 Practice Consultant, Certified Scrum Professional (CSP), and Training from the Back of the Room (TBR-VE).
Throughout my career, I have had the privilege of working with prominent organizations, including Baker Hughes, Hallin Marine, Premier Oil, Tesco Bank, NatWest Group, and Accenture, where I led diverse teams to deliver results and foster productive stakeholder relationships. These experiences are invaluable in my mission to guide individuals and teams toward realizing their full potential and achieving life-altering outcomes.
My journey proves that if I could connect the dots to build a purposeful life, you can too. Let’s work together to uncover your true potential.